Things that are repulsive in people - using your looks/clout/wealth to stunt on others and/or make them jealous - being flattered at mentions of you/reading about yourself - being invested in village gossip - conspiring against others and/or trying to force outcomes in your life - engaging in “intrasexual” competition with others

I really get so disappointed at how gross and petty so many are when you can simply choose to abstain for your own sake